Phuket: Solitary relaxation

Have you ever spent an entire day alone?

Alone as in there can be crowds of people around you, but you’re not talking to them, engaging in conversation or even sharing eye contact. You’re plugged into your own thoughts, ideas and paranoia.

Sound intimidating?

The city, no matter how big, becomes too familiar, too concrete and claustrophobic. It’s not rare if my bag is stuffed with a swimsuit and a plane ticket, ready to hit the waves at every given opportunity.

So last month, I made a short trip to Phuket to meet L for a long weekend, almost one year since we were last in the south of Thailand.

The first day was strictly for myself. I caught up with reading, listened to multiple podcasts (ask me about online dating, satanism, or the Great Pyramids), took a midnight dip outside my hotel room and even squeezed in a morning work out at 6:30am.

Good food, the ocean and my own company is good for the soul. Solitary relaxation from time to time is almost absolutely necessary for me to function as a human being. Here’s my trip in a few snapshots:

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My Beach Resort, Phuket

 

 

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My people.
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Time for myself

 

 

 

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No complaints here

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#ChillVibesOnly
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LDR since ’16

Tips: 

  • My taxi was around 800 THB from airport to the hotel and took approximately 1.5 hours, whereas Grab would have cost me well over 1,000 THB
  • I don’t usually splurge on hotels, especially in Thailand where budget is quite comfortable, but this weekend was dedicated to optimum relaxation and the hotel was well worth it
  • Walk around Old Phuket, eat to your heart’s content, forget calories
  • Rent a car to get around if you are staying in the south of the island

Hotel & restaurant recommendations:

 

 

Canggu, Bali: Coffee, Mantas & Wheatgrass

Bali. Famously infamous for its beaches, rice paddies, yoga retreats and Australian tourists.

My first trip to the island was not what I had expected – rowdy backpackers, cat-calling, and an indecent local man exposing himself to us (do not stay in New Seminyak) – but L encouraged me to give it another shot.

A three day weekend turned out to be exactly what I needed to settle my travel bug. Hope you enjoy clips of my experience – restaurants, villa, diving, coffee and some seriously good food – in Canggu:

 

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The villa.
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Art.

 

 

 

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Waiting for my avocado toast
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Brunch companion @The Shady Shack
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Hungry man breakfast for him, avo toast and chickpeas for me. Also, cheers to a shot of wheat grass each because, Bali.

Diving in Bali 

We woke up on 5:30am on Saturday morning to head to the dive shop –

 

The three dives at three different sites were well worth it: Nusa Penida; Manta Point; Crystal Bay

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Suit up
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Dive squad

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Gorgeous restaurant and even better dishes
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Dinner @Bambu

Tips: 

  • First and foremost, be kind to the environment, respect the culture and the people because you are a guest
  • Rent a motorbike to get around (only if you can drive one, sounds obvious but bears repeating)
  • Indulge in the ‘clean food’ and yoga classes
  • Shopping is dangerous i.e. art in Bali is unbeatable
  • There is Grab in Bali so avoid the taxi scams at the airport
  • Support the local produce (i.e. coffee) and don’t check emails!

Recommended restaurants: