Phuket: Solitary relaxation

Have you ever spent an entire day alone?

Alone as in there can be crowds of people around you, but you’re not talking to them, engaging in conversation or even sharing eye contact. You’re plugged into your own thoughts, ideas and paranoia.

Sound intimidating?

The city, no matter how big, becomes too familiar, too concrete and claustrophobic. It’s not rare if my bag is stuffed with a swimsuit and a plane ticket, ready to hit the waves at every given opportunity.

So last month, I made a short trip to Phuket to meet L for a long weekend, almost one year since we were last in the south of Thailand.

The first day was strictly for myself. I caught up with reading, listened to multiple podcasts (ask me about online dating, satanism, or the Great Pyramids), took a midnight dip outside my hotel room and even squeezed in a morning work out at 6:30am.

Good food, the ocean and my own company is good for the soul. Solitary relaxation from time to time is almost absolutely necessary for me to function as a human being. Here’s my trip in a few snapshots:

My Beach Resort, Phuket



My people.
Time for myself




No complaints here


LDR since ’16


  • My taxi was around 800 THB from airport to the hotel and took approximately 1.5 hours, whereas Grab would have cost me well over 1,000 THB
  • I don’t usually splurge on hotels, especially in Thailand where budget is quite comfortable, but this weekend was dedicated to optimum relaxation and the hotel was well worth it
  • Walk around Old Phuket, eat to your heart’s content, forget calories
  • Rent a car to get around if you are staying in the south of the island

Hotel & restaurant recommendations:



Canggu, Bali: Coffee, Mantas & Wheatgrass

Bali. Famously infamous for its beaches, rice paddies, yoga retreats and Australian tourists.

My first trip to the island was not what I had expected – rowdy backpackers, cat-calling, and an indecent local man exposing himself to us (do not stay in New Seminyak) – but L encouraged me to give it another shot.

A three day weekend turned out to be exactly what I needed to cure my travel bug. Sharing my experience at Canggu’s restaurants, our villa, diving, coffee and some seriously good food.

The villa.
Waiting for my avocado toast
Brunch companion @The Shady Shack
Hungry man breakfast for him, avo toast and chickpeas for me. Also, cheers to a shot of wheat grass each because, Bali.

Diving in Bali 

We woke up on 5:30am on Saturday morning to head to the dive shop.

Three dives at three different sites were well worth it: Nusa Penida; Manta Point; Crystal Bay

Suit up
Dive squad


Bambu, gorgeous restaurant and even better dishes
Dinner @Bambu


  • First and foremost, be kind to the environment, respect the culture and the people because you are a guest
  • Rent a motorbike to get around (only if you can drive one, sounds obvious but bears repeating)
  • Indulge in the ‘clean food’ and yoga classes
  • Art in Bali is fantastic, so prepare your eyes and wallets
  • Transportation: Grab (Uber of SEA) is present in Bali so avoid the taxi scams at the airport
  • Support the local produce such as coffee and don’t check emails!

Recommended restaurants: 

India was calling so Delhi, I came.

India is undeniably a beautiful country.

Past the rubble, the copious amounts of litter and poverty, as a visitor, there is a contagious spirit found in the streets, homes, clothing, food and smiles of the Indians.

I would say this feeling is best represented by the women’s brightly coloured saris against the country’s constantly crowded and chattering backdrop.

This isn’t meant to be a “how to travel through India” type of post, this photo diary is meant to inspire exploration, unearth new ways of life and peak curiosity in a country usually overlooked or misrepresented. Delhi first.

Christmas Eve, December 24; 9:00AM – a full day of sightseeing  

Qutub Minar
Three small silhouettes.
Qutub Minar
Afternoon nap
Qutub Minar
Field trip to the Qutub Minar
Furry friends
Playing with shadows in the
Red Fort (minus people)
Red Fort (with tons of people)
Lotus Temple
School boys at Humayun’s Tomb (Maqbaera e Humayun)
Humayun’s Tomb
Humayun’s Tomb
Shadows in Humayun’s Tomb

Some details that you may find helpful:

Method of travel in Delhi: driver & car, should cost around $60USD a day. They may bring you to shops or restaurants to get a commission so be very firm with where you want to go

Popular dishes we tried:

  • aloo gobi (vegetarian dish, cauliflower, potatoes, Indian spices)
  • palak paneer (pureed spinach and cottage cheese, non-spicy)
  • chicken tikka masala (spicy curry chicken), malai kofta (cottage cheese dumping in gravy, non spicy)
  • plain/garlic naan


  • Most attractions open at 10:00am, entrance fee for foreigners is usually 500₹, bringing in a professional camera is an additional small fee 
  • The line to enter the Lotus Temple was almost 4 hours (we didn’t bother)
  • Pay attention to the architecture, shadows and
  • Delhi has the worst pollution in the world – this is not hyperbole – buy a mask if you plan to be out for a long time or take a Tuk Tuk

Photographer: Luca Durisotto

India’s youth


10 December days in India. This shot was taken at Humayun’s Tomb in New Delhi on Christmas Eve.

A few not for profit organisations you can get involved with:

Salaam Baalak Trust – caring for the children on the streets of India
Smile Foundation India – helping underprivileged children
Helpage India – caring for the seniors in India
CARE India – shining a spotlight on the women in India, focused on alleviating poverty and social exclusion


#carewithcaose: dabbling in Quora

The question:

How do I get over the fact that I’m ugly?

I’m an 18 year old guy. I’m ugly, short, and a socially awkward person. I feel sad all the time. I have no friends. Don’t tell me things like “you are beautiful” or “inner beauty is more important”. I know I’m ugly as hell and just want to stop caring about it.

The answer: